second guessing

it never fails that at some point in life you can start to second guess yourself. some times it seems that it happens more often then it should. i find when this happens its time to bring myself back down to earth. many times in relationships i have either romantic or friendship i sometimes have to take a step back and look at the big picture. earlier this week i started to second guess an ending to a relationship. if it was the right decision or if it truly ended right. i came to the conclusion after writting a mistaken letter, that i made the right choice. i finally realized that everything was in the right place and everything was right where it needed to be for me to " start over" and begin something new. though it can be hard to let a person walk out of your life, most of the time it is for the best. people can walk in and out of our lives but there are reasons. sometimes its to make us realize what we want in life, or that we deserve better. though it may not always seem like the right thing at the time, but five minutes, or years later it will prove that you made the right decision. sometimes it seems good to second guess ourselves so that we can re-evaluate what we are doing, where we are going, and what we deserve. its just funny some times the way these simple events fall into our laps just waiting on a decision or a second guess.